Covenant Men Intensive Recovery Program
Covenant Men is a specialized group designed to help you once and for all break free from porn addiction and related cyber-sexual or sexual addictions. These are perhaps the hardest of all addictions to overcome and need some very specialized guidance. With porn/cyber addictions, the mind is overtaken in so many ways, typically starting in youth, and ingrained deeply over time. Knowing where to start is daunting if you are trying to do it alone.
Common first efforts are typically to try and tough it out, to just stop. But it is not really possible to white knuckle yourself into quitting. Noble as your efforts might be, the likelihood for failure is above 99%. To truly succeed, you must look deeper into the brain chemistry and its systems of reward, coping, habit, and love mapping, the systems that have been hijacked as porn diverted your normal sexual development.
Our proven method addresses the causes, the cure, and the relationship challenges related to saving you from your addiction. Simultaneously, you learn to lift your spouse and your relationship out from the betrayal trauma that threatens to collapse your marriage.
Becoming a Covenant Man is more than just stopping a bad behavior. It is about destroying the enemy within that is taking over your destiny as a man of valor and honor.
We will help you unlock the strongholds in your life that are hidden from you, and forever alter the habits and choices that keep porn coming back. We will teach you how to hear from and heal your wife, if you are married, and to protect your future spouse if you are not.
Ultimately, you will learn to restore the covenant you have with yourself that will drive you into success as a man in life, not just away from porn.
The 16 weeks of intensive therapy is provided through written materials, weekly activities and lessons, weekly online process and coaching group hosted by Dr Chuck and his expert coaches. The cost of enrollment can be divided over four months for those who need it, with all materials included. You will have access to the group and to the materials for a full year, so that you can move less quickly if needed, recycle your learning to hone your recovery skills, or to do maintenance on your sobriety by continuing the group experience. See current rates for services and programs below.
Men from all over meet each Saturday at 10am eastern on Zoom, for free! Porn addiction, cybersex, sexual acting out, and infidelity all assault the marriage. That much we know. But it also assaults a man’s self-image to the core, creating a narcissistic wounding that just won’t stop. The more you use it, the worse you feel. The more you try to stop it and fail, the worse you feel. Being honest with your wife and watching her in pain, the worse you feel. Eventually, most men simply give up and give in to the addiction once again.
Sometimes it takes a little bit more to break free. When men have deeper hurts and fear, most often associated with childhood trauma, abuse, or neglect, or other times with failed or traumatic relationships experiences, porn and cybersex hold aggressively. Deep hurt creates deep need for affirmation, connection, control, image, and many other facets of self-identity. When this is the case, or if saving your marriage is urgent, individual counseling and coaching is the best solution. Dr Chuck will personally guide you through a more customized version of the recovery process, while rooting out those hidden traps and triggers that cause you to fail or stumble. He will give you strategies to recovery your relationship, if possible, while also recovering who you are, or were, before porn hijacked your life.
Covenant Men Group and The Renewed Mind Process
